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How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 18:28

How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?

All Work And No Play

There are many abusive people that use different psychological techniques abusive and none abusive techniques to get into your nerves and make you angry and even push you to commit crimes . Asking too many stupid questions to someone intelligent. Repeating the same topics and conversation . unwanted Touching. Staring at someone for long time. Cutting you off your sources of happiness or while you talk to someone can really make you go nuts. Invasion of your space for example when someone comes too close to you unexpectedly, or stands in the doorway , when you are in hurry and need to go through, you feel the beginnings of violent panic.

Taking off your sunglasses when people are talking to you so that they can see your eyes.

Why can't NASA just bite the bullet and launch a plainly simple mission, audited by flat earther peers start to finish that definitively proves to even the smallest minds that the earth is an oblong spheroid, and not flat?

Screwed

Provocations is important to know in law , self defense in criminal matters. It's usually someone who is behaving “provocatively” in the word , speaking , writing , photos , etc , school , business , competition , body language or action ways close to you or from far away.

Take your hat off when you enter the house.

Have you ever forcibly sucked someone’s dick?

Not letting the door slam in anyone's face when you enter or exit a building.

The secretive plan of provoking you to become angry starts by first finding your weak points , spying on you , daily , and sending or setting up their guys on your ways or at places you go . Spying is done by first they bug your communication, watch your moves , and listen to what you say and realize your points of weakness and what bothers you. They then develop a dialogue to irritate those point. Then they double down on the attack and repeat those points until they get a reaction. Then they refine the points to get bigger reactions. Once the reaction gets to be huge - expect a punch in the nose.

Invalidated

What factors may contribute to intelligent individuals identifying as Republican rather than Democrat in the United States today?

Drinking Energy Drinks

Always chew with your mouth closed.

Play with passion or don’t play at all.

Even Captain James T. Kirk was trapped in a woman's body. Don't you think he'd support trans people?

Speaking With Your Mouth Full

Not being sexist or racist.

What do people frequently do in public that get on your nerves? What makes me angry?

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Manners maketh the man.

Do not dig your nose with your finger for cleaning , in the public.

Giving Away “Tells” In Poker

I took a video of my serve (60 FPS) and it took 0.4 seconds from my racket to the service line. How fast would you say my serve was?

Calling me dump , stupid and restarted. Calling me rapist , Homosexual , woman hater , family destroyer , dangerous really makes me angry. Discrimination in all its kind. Harmful jealousy. Blackmail. Bully business. Weaponizing sex and work respect , peace etc .

An example is , Secret intelligent agencies spy on you. Thier teams who are Sick poeple want you to turn you into a sucide bomber or into kill your self play this game with you. The hater and control freak.l mafia agency don't stop the mind games and torure , unless they see you stopping to look at poeple or go close to poeple. And also see you growing beard and stink and go in deep thoughts , wonder. , make mistakes , don't pay attention to cars , etc . little mental game of cat and mouse. When you look at them , they look away . When you don't look at them , they stand up walk close to you and show you some sexiness of butt or cleavage , legs etc. When you put your head down , they make loud noises around you or call your name without looking at you. Or shout at something to make up your head again.

Share food.

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Not Holding Eye Contact

Do not hang the phone suddenly after speaking, close it with a bye or thank you.

Being A Know-It-All

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Eating When You Are Bored

Not Protecting Yourself From The Sun

Picking Your Nose

Why do liberals and Democrats think it’s “ironic” for Donald Trump to say “We have to get back to law and order”?

Waiting you your turn in line and not pushing in.

You do not tell anyone the name of a friend’s crush if there exists a chance that that person may tell the crush.

Eat lunch with the new kid.

Why didn’t Obito confront Kakashi after he witnessed him kill Rin?

Forgetting Names Of People You Meet

Do not move hands while speaking.

Talking During Movies

Harvard doctor lists 6 cancer causing foods: What are their alternatives - Times of India

Respect people regardless of their job.

Letting Fear Stop You From Trying Something New

If someone expect something from me and they are not supposed to. I hate it .

Why are European countries warning European travelers to be careful traveling to the United States?

Eating Chocolate

Assaulted

A sport coat is worth a thousand words.

‘How to Train Your Dragon’ soars in box office debut with $83.7 million, beating ‘Lilo & Stitch’ - AP News

Binge Watching Netflix

And finally , people also become angry when No one listen to you . Everyone try to make you come off as lair even when you speak the truth. They dominant your conversation. They make loud noise while you are sitting at a place eating or drinking. Loud noise around where you live to deny you sleep.Being treated unfairly , not having money , work , a good clean place for living or having Pain , injuries , bad memories , sickness can also make someone angry.

Damaged

What is the cost of implementing synchronized traffic lights in a mid-sized city?

Always hold the door open for others.

Spying on my private conversations.

Annihilated

Have you or anyone you know invested in cryptocurrencies before? If so, which one did you invest in and how much profit did you make?

Burned

Do not make sound while sipping tea or soup or while eating.

Hypocrisy of poeple.

You’re never too old to learn something new.

Shoplifting

Never be too busy for a friendly visit or much needed ear.

Picking Scabs

When someone accuse me of being a gay or a spy and I am not.

Plotted against me .

Always speak the truth.

Reddit

Don't be offended by criticism. Take it seriously, not personally.

Taking responsibility for actions.

Afflicted

Opening Countless Tabs

Also , Ontario housing of Canada refused to give me housing as a person who smoke weed and dirty. The Barzani's family and Canadian Government has a hand in it . If I call police , like I have done it before calling police of Kitchener. Officer hunter was investigating my complain about espionage and the rooming house guys . He told me that I have been hallucinated because I smoke weed . Nobody spy on me . He advised me to go to doctor take my medication and sleep. He said that is the only you can deal with hallucinations paranoia and feel mental stable without accusing poeple of spying on you. Poeple are busy.

Eating Too Fast / Not Chewing

In my case when Iam nice , they are rude , when I am.polite. When I clean and shower or have a little bit of money , they don't look at me or come around me . When I stink and look dirty and slowly clumsy , they send the most beautiful girls half naked to my way . She smiles and Show you her sexy staffs. But , you stink . The psychopaths go on more as when you say hello , they ignore you. When you ignore them , they say hello to you. When you are nice to them , They're mean to you. When you are mean to them, they are nice to you. When you are happy , they become angry with you. When you are angry , they joke with you ..They must always keep you on edge never let you have peace.

Quora

Rejected

Telling Secrets

Again , this another way to encourage poeple to argue and encourage fights between me and poeple rather than peace justice and avoidance of problems and bad poeple. The problem is Iam not getting desrespected by more than one person . And it's not only once in a month or a year. It's every 2 to 3 days . It happens systematically with espionage and teach downs of my movements. I am sending my privacy right violations and reporting it to RCMP and police of Canada . If they continue calling me sick and hallucinated. And if they ignore investigating it . And if it happens more , I would have a solid justification to continue writing , talking and the Barzani's family , Kurds , police and Canada whenever I get desrespected.

Talking to me loudly.

While shaking hands, press a little,shake, hold for two seconds and then leave.

Be big enough to recognize when you are wrong, and humble enough to say you are sorry.

But , Iam still aware. As soon as a car or bike or a dog or a thug comes close to me , I run away from them . If I was an aware I would have been hit by car long time ago or I would hurt someone and go to jail. But I avoid it. Though everyone tells me coward , but I call it taking precautions with bad poeple.And I report it too. I have survived many close car accident against me in Kitchener. Many times. Police know about it . But they think it's my fault because I smoke weed .

Snubbed

Eating Past 8 P.M

Name Dropping

Celling bangs and squeaky floors.

Spending Too Much Time Online

Sticking bad and negative adjectives and names on me while I am not.

Hair Pulling

Biting Fingernails

Don't compare yourself to others also don't compare others to anyone.”””…

Furthermore , as a part of sucide program they use , For example , I suffer . I panhandle. I live in dirty places . Iam injured. Nobody compensated me. I nice music and post it online , the same haters criminals who have hurt me and covered up , paying rooming house guys addicts to desrespect me and cut off my internet. They continue slamming the doors to distract me mixing music or sleeping. They spy on me through my electronics and wireless camiras inside my room and they coordinator thier walking on my way on the halls to washrooms as soon as I get out . It has happened like this more than 20 times . It's hate . It's mind control. It's nerve racking.

Copying

Chewing With Mouth Open

Don't stand infront of someone close to their face while they are sitting.

You do not spread gossip/news unless it is trivial, but if it’s not about any of your friends, well…

Overspending

Humiliated

Being a polite driver.

Disrespected

Coming to close to my face .

Buzz-friggin’-feed

Hold the umbrella and offer your arm.

Always try not to talk to someone wearing headphones or earphones in public.

Watching Reality Television

Thank a veteran. Then make it up to him.

If you see your friend trying to talk to a girl/guy, leave them alone. Asking them about it later, and having them go into detail about that interaction is not required, but highly recommended.

And most importantly , wars , human poverty ,human rights abuse , Racism , discrimination , lack of rule of law , democracy , freedom and justice are biggest reasons that can cause anger for someone. But after all anger is supposed to be controlled under any circumstances and should not lead to crimes unless beyond your power and out of no choice. Depending what makes you angry and whether you are right or wrong.

Repeating Yourself

Complaining

Crushed

Never ever open a close colleague's bag ( females) without the permission.

Try to mind your own business unless somethings affects you directly.

Do not clean your ear with pen or pencil. It too feels yuk.

Subject: provocations and subtle human rights violations.

Watching T.V Right After Work

Borrowing And Not Returning Items

Stand up to bullies. Protect those bullied.

When entrusted with a secret, keep it.

Don't grab people's belongings and goodies.

Belching

Put down

When someone makes a dirty mess like in the rooming house guys, in the washrooms , kitchen etc and accuse me of being dirty.

Popping Gum

Using Devices At Night

Cheating on me . Framing me . Making up stories on my behalf. Selling me . All these are deadly triggers of anger in me .Discrediting my writings about violation of human rights against me .

Licking Your Fingers

When a man sexually touch.

Playing with my mind and emotions. Or seducing me . Stabbing me from the back .

Devalued

Open the car door for your passenger.

Don’t let a wishbone grow where a backbone should be.

Speeding

Pocari Sweat From Japan (seriously, if you drink this for 2 or 3 days your body will crave it instead of water)

The Ultimately , they want to see you rape , kill ,jump at poeple, run after whores , punch or kill yourself or grow beard and put your head down and go to mosque or church. It's human trafficking business. If you become sick from peace , privacy , and mind games exhausted , from there doctors and police ambulance would take you over . They look you up at mental health services hospital. They call you dangerous to the public. To leave someone alone , and respect thier rights means you need to stop doing all of these subtle and obvious violations of human rights against poeple like me .

According to Google:

Use thankyou as often as you can.

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Ignored

Fiddling With Your Hair

If the teacher forgets to check for homework and your friend forgot to do it, you do not, under any circumstances, ask “Wasn’t there homework due today?”

Not Showering

Pinching Pennies

While coughing or sneezing, cover it with a kerchief.

Why do we feel hurt emotionally by words and signals or action of others?

Going To The Club

Chewing Gum

Playing Kingdom Rush

Apologize , if it's your mistake. Yes, you should do it.

While talking to a colleague in office, don't try to look into his computer screen and don't try to read his mails etc. It's for him not for you.:). Respect people's privacy.

Skipping The Gym

Respect other people’s property. Return borrowed pencils, don’t smudge their phone if you use it, and pay back loans from your friends.

Eating Candy

Invasion of privacy and space.

Do not wink a lot while conversing.

Never turn down a breath mint.

If you are coughing and you have to clean your throat, go to the toilet and do it.

Using Your Phone In Bed

Blocking my way .

Return things within time.

Impersonating me.

Not Moisturizing

What are some bad habits we all have?

They hit your weak points deliberately to get a reaction out of you, either good or bad. That is their intent when they start provoking you or prodding you to make you angry on purpose, and they soak it in and feel a smidgen of satisfaction and joy from getting you all worked up for no reason.They photo and video you at that moment and use it as an evidence to call you sick and dangerous. They use it as a justification to spy on you as a dangerous person. And your rights are violated on daily basis under such bad excuses.They never want you to have peace. Until you run or end up in the hospital , jail., courts.

Picking Your Teeth In Public

In a negotiation, never make the first offer.

After writing an angry email, read it carefully. Then delete it.

According to Google that “ Consideration means having empathy for another person and conducting yourself through thoughtful behaviour when interacting with someone else and looking at them in a clean heart way , without having or developing bad hidden motives towards them while you are talking or looking at them, at least nuetural heart if not humane and polite heart.

Annoying People On Purpose

Licking Your Lips

Diminished

Always offer to pay, and be ready to pay.

Throw that chocolate wrapper in the dust bin, do not litter.

While talking, do not sound too loud or too low.

Use polite words.

When a woman accuse me of stalking her or talking bad about her , and I don't.

Not interrupting people when they are talking.

When someone accuse me of being sick when I am not.

Never shake a man’s hand sitting down. It's rude.

Chewing Tobacco

Treat your subordinates , or people under low working class with due respect. Don't ill treat them just because you are in the top of the ladder. It will not take more time for life's wheel to turn the other way around.

Neglected

Skipping Class

Interpreting my conversation.

Tormented

Learn how to grill well.

Talking About Your Sister Behind Her Back

They make noise around you when you busy your self with internet. They want you to look at poeple or around yourself. Sometimes when you look at beautiful women , they send a Stinky street guy or 2 to come around you and disgust your appetite and make loud noises around you or threaten you. They make you leave the public and run or fistfight them and face the consequences. This can happen even in a relationship or at work.

Spitting

Eavesdropping

Invisible

Blocking my vision.

Excessive Throat Clearing

Cheek Biting

Spending On Credit Cards

Dishonest and unfair treatment.lies that causes big harms emotionally and physically or financially.

Trolling Comments

Thumb Sucking

Agonized

Betrayed

Drinking Soda/Pop

Don't listen when I clearly and loudly say " stop the desrespect and back off.

Being able to swallow pride and actually making an honest apology when you honestly offend someone or do something that affects them in a bad way instead of trying to find a way to put the blame back on them.

Skipping Work

Talking In Class

Be like a duck. Remain calm on the surface and paddle like crazy underneath.

Forgetting What You’ve Told Someone

Give credit.

When someone come to visit me or knock on my door or bang my door or shout behind my door , or disturb me , for no good reason , I really become angry.

It's clear poeple who look for your weak points of life , personality , are powerful , capable spies have everything to use against you to stop you from critic doing of those who you critique or embarrss in your speaking and writing. They lose business , followers , powers and fans whom they use and abuse. . They are harmful, without empathy, hate criticism, are envious, want to put you down to make them better and are very sick and disordered people. They have to win, be better than and make you look worse than they do for their ego’s which need constant feeding. Don’t stay in these relationships. It will hurt you in the long run.

Defeated

If you see a guy peeing into a urinal, and there are open urinals all around him, don’t use the urinal right next to him.

If you are entering someone room/ cabin, knock before entering and seek permission.

Try to stand when greeting.

Offended

Ask your mom to play. She won’t let you win.

Do not suddenly speak in between,when two people are talking.

Humming To Yourself

Usually snobbish are inconsiderate . Because they consider themselves to be above most people and need to be catered to. I hope that isn’t so, but you will not win friends and influence people if you proceed with your stated response.

While coming in and going out, leave the door gently, don't bang.

Hold your heroes to a higher standard.

The only time we need to use the word “provoked” is in right and fair logical , self defense with enough evidence , explaining for some action logically and fairly , we took, ( hurt and damage emotionally , phiscally finicially ) and as the reason to justify those actions and be set free from wrong judgment and guilt.

How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?

Finishing People’s Sentences

Injured

Conditioning love sex relationships to aggressive behaviour or money or gun using.

You may eat once everyone is seated at the table and the cook has lifted his/her fork off of the napkin.

Eating Cookies Every Damn Day

Watching Seinfeld Reruns

Skipping Breakfast

Show gratitude to God for all you have in life.

Spying on you and Stealing your private life information and spreading it to people. Spreading rumours about . To Scare off someone. To tease , poke , touch and bug someone on and on . To make fun of someone's life , appearance and things they have. To beat someone. To insult someone. To frustrate someone , to turn people against someone. To put pressure on someone at work . To force someone to do something for you. To cut him / her off something they enjoy doing it.

Falling Asleep In Class

Leaving Your Wallet / Keys In Random Places

Make ugly and disgusting noises close to me .

Procrastinating

Don't make loud noises around poeple if you don't have a good reason like work and duties.

Exaggerating

When there is a queue, wait for your chance, don't barge.

Use and abuse me.

In other words, any hyper vigilance towards them is dropped by you, then they are up to their shenanigans again, most likely planning a way to get a boost of supply from you, sometimes unexpectedly.And if you distance yourself, whether physically or emotionally, they must pull you back in. They will never leave you alone. You will see it in the haters and narcissist’s eyes, that haunted look of someone who never lived, someone who wanders the earth restlessly, wanting to be the best, but always failing because they don't put in the effort. They are mostly slavery masters and human dealers.

Leaving The Heat On When You Go Out

Make your bed.

In office, when you go to your colleagues place/ bay for talking, do not pull the other colleagues chair for seating. If you do so, leave the chair for him as soon as he comes.

Staying Up Late

Dragging me into fights arguments.

Respect your teachers….who always force us to the next level.

Yelling At Your BF/GF

Forgotten

Being Argumentative

If someone cut off my sources of legit fun , life interests , and health cure .

Not texting while you are talking to someone.

Deprived

Pencil Chewing

Being An Attention Hog

Slouching At The Computer

You do not leave a friend on read, opened (Snapchat), or seen. However, not opening a text, Snap, DM, or other message is okay.

When someone spy on me for no good reason.

Ridiculed

Conning me , ripping me off .

Emotional Eating

Don't hurt your parents.

It's violation. It's espionage. It's not coincidence. It's violation of human rights. In fact Espionage doesn't bother me ( you can't stop it by the way . How ? ) when someone is only spying at me to look at my pines or the way I sleep or sex . Because I don't do nothing illgal in my room. And I don't have hidden crimes from the past . But , what bothers me about espionage is the coordinating of the sophisticated spy with his/her team to come on my way walking or biking or by car , screeching , intimidating or sending them waiting around corners in the public , lurke to hit me with the door of a store I go to or the place I walk by or when if Iam walking wrong side at light or in the streets. They send poeple on my who look like poeple I know from Iraq . It makes me wonder and think if that's him/her or not . It distract my mind from focusing on my walking and traffic rules momentarily.

Gambling

Rebuffed

Not Brushing Your Teeth

When I am sleeping and sick or very tired or need sleep to function.

Damaging my good work record.

Nibbling While Cooking

One more time I went to Kitchener police station to report the rooming house guys and thier harrsaments especially the Roman Prist. Again they told me Iam sick and I need to take medication. Police told me that I have the right to self defense if anyone bother me or come on my way or harrsaments. He was wondering why I don't defend myself and argue with poeple over my rights while I write about law and violation of my rights.

If someone cuts off my basic needs .

To show up late and keep someone waiting. To not live up to what you are supposed to live up to . To break promise. To let down someone. To mislead and betray someone. To violate someone’s rights. To make someone uncomfortable with bad smells and bad body language moves. To deny someone opportunity to have , peace , privacy , work, friends , food , shelter medical services etc . To muffle someone’s voice. To discredit their honest and clean work . To give someone more work than what they are supposed to do . To corner someone.

Bragging

Losing Your Temper

Do not use other person's towel, comb, kerchief etc.

Someone who repeat the same mistakes against me .

Never be afraid to ask out the best looking girl in the room.

Drinking Tea

Jilted

Fiddling With Keys

Leaving The Fridge Open

Squashed

You marry the girl, you marry her family.

Hoarding

Breaking Promises To Yourself

Biting Your Lips

Eating Fast Food

YouTube

Using Slang

Carry two handkerchiefs. The one in your back pocket is for you. The one in your breast pocket is for her.

Rambling

Aching

Don't shake hands with wet hands.

Psychology, law and ethics

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Do not spit or throw garbage on the road or in public.

Sitting Too Close To The T.V

Ask if you can help.

Someone Disagree to reason, logic and rationality when I convince and Iam right.

Masturbating

Don't take for granted ,the sharing of food with intimate friends in the same plate. They may not like it.

Fidgeting

Picking Fights

Skipping Meals

Hacking my Facebook account.

Not staring at strangers in public.

When Iam eating and someone talk or show dirty disgusting staffs , or making puking , irritating noises , ugly disgusting words , images , moves , body language etc .

Poor Hygiene

Sleeping-in

If a person who is extremely stupid , dangerous , sick , no manner , no respect , crminalistic , potentially or not , or lazy has an impact on my life. Might be some of his activities that he or she hurt or procrastinates delays my life , my rights , my important task , it will also make me angry.

Interrupting Someone

Don’t try to impose your opinions on others. If you think the guy’s opinion is problematic, talk/debate formally.

You have manners and considerations that go hand in hand to behave excellent mostly in your daily life especially when interacting with people.

Biting Your Disgusting Toe Nails

Forcing me to love or be loyal to someone or some groups.

Return a borrowed car with a full tank of gas.

Heart-broken

Victimized

Someone hurt me and Don't admit mistakes.

Don't talk back.

Drinking From The Carton

Kissing & Telling

Don't get jealous of anyone.

Being Overly Critical

When you make a phonecall to someone,you tell your name, the name of person you want to speak to and the reason you have called up. Don't ask others name.

While using a public toilet, leave the toilet dry and clean.

Negative Self Talk / Self Criticism

When a woman or a man that I don't like comes close to me or touch me or talk to me or message , signal me etc .

Don't talk to poeple rudely if you have no good reason.

When someone threat me when I am innocent.

Saying “Yes” To Everything

If you have borrowed pen etc. from someone in office, return it before you are asked for it.

When someone bother me for no good reason.

Whining

Being Unfriendly

Grinding Your Teeth

If you are in advanced classes, tell your friends which ones are actually worth taking. Do not ever try to academically sabotage your friends.

Tortured

When you are given someone's mobile for speaking, clean/ rub it with your palm before putting it on to your ears and after you are finished speaking, repeat the same and return it back.

Punched

Abused

Abased

What are some proper manners for everyday life?

Eating Gluten

Insulted

To deny someone from having fun and to play in between him/ her and his family , friends and lovers and break them apart. To disrespect people. To withhold sex , or other sweet and important things from someone to get them become angry.Screaming children. Too many incoming phone calls and texts at once. Constant Loud noises. The neighbour’s noise and barking dogs.

Porn Watching

Take advantage of me .

Not Doing Your Homework

Its because of the self-identity, and life , property , money , title popularity, position, social status , family , house , car , business , girlfriend, husband, children, appliances, cash , jweils , powers , reputation, we have worked for ( spent body members energy , time and money on it for long ) and created for ourselves. It is the self-image that we have. For example, let’s just say, I identify myself as a good writer and someone comments on how bad I write, I would be hurt. But I must really be a good writer with reputation, recognition and good work so I can feel hurt. Otherwise it's not hurt . It's critics that embarrsing you . And you shouldn't developed hate or become angry and revengeful about it . Example of situations where someone hurt your feelings for some reason:

Gossiping

Skin Picking

Putting Dishes In Sink And Not Washing Them

Emotional Shopping

When you let your guards down, open up your trust towards them, allow your boundaries to become relaxed . You want to have sex , they call you slut or a dirty stud . Or they sex the girl and vice versa , take advantage of you and leave. Or they shut you off emotionally By being rude , hard to talk to . When you leave them alone , they make noise , charming , staffs , switching off suddenly, and being too Sweet or again too busy for you.

When someone take the credit of my hard work , music , writing , art, etc and call me the one who's the thief. Outrageous.

Biting Your Pen

Twitter

Write down your dreams.

Losing Focus

When a woman accuse me of being obsesed with her and love her , and Iam not.

In a restaurant, when you want to pull the chair from another person's table, ask for his permission.

Manner means be polite, thankful when helped , respected and to be thoughtful about the needs of others too when you see them need something and you can help them . You can at least avoid hurting them or adding more salt to thier injuries. It means To act and speak humbly, thoughtfully and politely at gatherings. It's opposite to be rude , arrogant ruthless , ignorant and inconsiderate.

Bleeding

When I am innocent doing something good and someone Cutts me off won't let me continue.

Video Games

Eating White Sugar

Forgetting To Shave

When your friend shows you a picture on their phone, don’t scroll/swipe to other photos.

When someone humiliate and desrespect me in the public or inside for no good reason.

If you need music on the beach, you’re missing the point.

Don't give bad looks to poeple if you have no good reason.

Here you go, here is the list of self defense tools .

If you go towards a group and they suddenly change their topic, better to leave them alone.

Restrict my freedoms.

Slighted

m&m’s

Kouhan Fatah

Being Late

D.on't pull others down. Lift them up.

Always say thank you and write a thank you note.

Don't touch others while speaking.

Facebook

Do not drink the water directly from bottle ( touching mouth), if it is others.

Persecuted

This is kouhan Fatah speaking about things and type of poeple who make me angry. Don't forget it . It's important. If you take it as a joke, you are responsible for my anger .

Do not appreciate my hard work and help.

Loitering

Cracking Your Knuckles

Wronged

Gaming In Class

Over Medicating

Deflated

Not Flossing

When shaking hands, grip firmly and look the person in the eye.

Alcohol (if you think you may be an alcoholic, please get professional help)

To lie and deceive someone. To play with the emotions of someone. To take their belongings and not bring back . To boss then around. To dig into their private life. To embarrass them in any possible way.

Poeple who push your bottons and provoke you to become angry are sick . They want to slowly kill you from an anger stroke , high blood pressure , jail , fights ,hospitals , isolation , and hate of others , because you are angry.They don't go after the real abusive predators, who they seem to not only kill freedom of speech and critics of the victim of human rights abuses , but also get an endorphin rush/self-satisfaction/control in playing with their prey. It's just who they are and what they do. In my case it's the Barzani's family and Canadian intelligent agency doing provocations to me for over 12 years .

They come with dogs , to desrespect me with a rude word or spit at me or close and loud around me , or humiliate or swears or outer intimidating, threats , aggressive body language moves , insults , or at public places , keep me waiting or touch me from behind or front or side or come to my face to provoke me for an argument or fight or take an inderect picture with me without my permission or come to talk to me to make someone else think we are framing someone or slandering someone.

Say sorry whenever necessary.

Laughed at

Excessive Salt

Always protect your siblings (and teammates).

Checking Your Hair / Eyebrows / Makeup / Nails

Don’t look in your phone when someone is speaking to you.

Eating Dairy

Saying “Ummm” And “Ahhh”

When someone cut me off my good friend, poeple lovers etc for no good reason.

Encourage the culture of gangsters and wars by using coward, pussy , dishonorable , words and Labels mong men to provoke.

Littering (really, stop littering)

Do not try to listen to two persons talk.

Brutalized

Be confident and humble at the same time.

Popping Zits

Dejected

If your friend/ colleague has given you his mobile to show a pic etc.just see that pic and return the phone, don't start browsing his entire album.

Spread positivity

Scratching An Itch

Tapping Fingers/Pens/Etc.

Obsessively Checking iPhone/iPad

Slouching While Walking

Horking

Sleeping With Makeup

Leaving The Toilet Seat Up

Don't stick your body to the body of others without asking permission or having a relationship with.

Online Surfing In Class

Bullying People

Cheated

Freeloading

When you are offered something for eating while sharing, take just a little.

Snacking

If someone ignore me when they are not supposed to.

Day Dreaming

Wash your handa before eating.

Different people become angry for different reasons. Those who become angry for good reasons are fighting human rights abuse , but those who become angry for bad reasons are stupid and should not become angry or else they should be put medication or anger management classes and even jail and probation if they become violent and dangerous towards others .

Calling me masochist or labeling me and sticking different mental sicknesses on me . While I am not.

When Iam in the middle of doing a very important work.

Drinking Coffee

Oppressed

Pained

While calling the lift, press only once .Have a little patience the lift would come.

Using Your Maiden Name

Intimidated

One-Upping

Eating Meat

Chastised

When someone spread ugly insulting, made up and fabricated testimonies, stories , accusations , CGI video , or private matters , morphed photos recording , voice etc about me.

Speak politely amd softly.

Arranging Instead of Cleaning

Overeating

Lying

Lots of poeple provoke me to shout and disrespect in the public. They desrespect me emotionally. Or financially and phisically. Sometimes severely in a big and serious dangerous way and sometimes in a small harmful ways , like spiitin on me or swearing or coming around me threatening and leave , or sexually desrespect me through body language b, words , etc or humiliate me infront of women and friends. At the end someone must do something bad like this to provoke me into a bad reaction and response. But fairly. I desrespect just as they do . But , don't desrespect fairly. They hurt me phiscally too.

Blamed

Monopolizing A Conversation

Flaking Out

Chewing On Your Hair

Talking To Yourself

Bushwhacked

Don't desrespect me. If you don't know , now you know. There are many things and type of people who can get into someone's nerves and push them to become very angry to the point where they shout , break staffs , or beat or even kill the person or people who are hurting his / her nerves on and on . But there is a difference between becoming angry for a good reason and being angry for a bad reason.

If you see a guy peeing into a urinal, and there are open urinals all around him, don’t use the urinal right next to him.